We invite a BETTER perfect

Bam. Crash. Die. You faced the end of your relationship. It is so painful, loverboy, or girl. But I understand. As do many. Many have faced such tragedy. Read "What got in the way" for closure and making sure your happy switch is on. Read "...you got this, you can recover!" to recover in strides.

All that is wonderful — you are recovering in strides, but what is our overall goal here — complete satisfaction (it is possible) of course. As you are recovering in strides, you will still have thoughts about your past relationship. If your relationship was any good you will think something along the lines of "man, that was perfect". While it is okay to think that, it is not okay that it slows you down a little. We don't want you to think "man, that was perfect", we want you to think "man, here's to a BETTER perfect, I'm recovering, I'm single, I'm gonna meet someone great". This is a step towards that complete satisfaction.

Having that positivity is great! Here's to a BETTER perfect loverboy, girl! But we need more! If you're like most, you're hitting the gym, you're knuckling down at work, you're staying social/enjoying your pastime. Take note, however, of why do all that, and then do all that with even greater conviction. That's what we need.

Borrowing from my life coaching here, we need you to be exceptional and stand on several pillars. One pillar gives rise to others. Stand on the pillar of health (hitting the gym), the pillar of wealth (knuckling down at work), or the pillar of fun (enjoying your pastime). Stand on one watch the others rise as well. Health translates to youthful energy which brings about great work. Work translates to peace of mind which brings about tranquil pastimes. Pastimes translate to joy which brings about powerful workouts. Before long you will be exceptional, you will attract an exceptional other, and you will start living an exceptional life. Sounds like complete satisfaction to me!

Here's once more to a BETTER perfect! And here's to striving towards it with health, wealth, and fun (or insert your own pillars)!

Lastly, let me tell you about the pillar of service. If you acquire expertise in any field and there is an opportunity to serve, you should go for it! Most likely you will allot fewer hours to your pastime! That's it!