If you are going hot and heavy in your relationship right now keep going, more power to 'ya. However if you are trying to get over a disappointment peel your eyes right here.
If you are trying to get over a disappointment forget chasing any other thoughts other than what got in the way. Our goal is to get you closure, and possibly salvage your relationship but there is a small chance of that. If you realize what got in the way you can do something about it or it's not possible to do something about it at all. If you (still) do something about it, great! Possibly salvaged! If nothing can be done, you did your best! Just say these magic words "Sorry your loss" and you should have closure!
So what if you have closure? Uh, you can move on! Something didn't work, continue as normal. No need to bother sacred mental spaces or other areas of your life. Keep schedule as per usual and you'll forget about the disappointment. Instead of thinking about that fail remember your successes more, remember your future plans more, remember great people in your life more; I call it making sure your happy switch is on.
Once you've got closure and your happy switch is on, you'll be back in the world doing better than ever before. If none of this applies to you, once again more power to 'ya.
See you in the next installment!
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